am i overreacting? advice for eid celebrations

Salam everyone, so eid is coming up and im deliberating in my head on how to approach this

for context:

recently, during the last week my mother has been unhappy with my fathers lack of effort for our family, his lack of care to provide etc and shes tired of carrying the weight of this family on her own and has been considering separation

my entire family seems to know about this and they respond harshly and whatever, just not a very pleasant situation

for eid i am 100% sure this will all be brushed aside as it always is and we will all come together and act normal, but now im just tired of it

i dont know what to do because everyone makes me feel as though im overreacting but am i? they just brush it aside and act like its normal for this to happen but its been a constant cycle and i dont want to be around it anymore

Any advice is appreciated, thank you