Went on 2 dates and asked for 3rd. Girl busy no other date suggestion.

Went on coffee with a girl then few weeks later went for dinner. Vibes were great. Teasing back and forth, slight accidental hand touches, she said seemed genuinely interested. She laughed a lot when I joked with her or teased her, comfortable telling me some personal things going on, a trip she just went on.

Had checked in my jacket. She seemed disappointed when the waiter brought my jacket like it was too short. Paid the bill, still lingered 20 mins later. She asked a girl to take photo of her and she asked if we want one together. Date said yes. Hug at the end. She talked about activities and said she would be down to try a specific thing out. Message she sent thanking for dinner. Dinner lasted 3 and a half hours.

Followed up today about a 3rd date, was thinking arcade. She responded 12 hours later not this weekend, its busy. No suggestion of an alternative date.

Whenever I talked to her vibes were there in person but barely texted, was quite short. When I messaged her usually got texts but when it came to making plans, it took a while usually.

So from what I know, saying she busy and not offering an alternative means she not interested? Just trying to think because the positive signs were strong.

In my past experiences usually much more obvious if its clipped but confused so would like your guys input.

Assuming I just stop trying to lead? She isn’t the type to message on her own and more traditional like the guy has to follow up.