am i wrong for not always posting my boyfriend when im not with him ?

we just made 3 years in december and we are also LDR. we never had this issue before, or i didn’t think it was an issue ? i DO post my boyfriend especially when im with him, i do not post him a lot when he is not with me because how if he’s not with me ? what exactly am i supposed to post besides old pics saying i miss him ? i also don’t always post my life on social media because i like to be a private person even tho there is nothing special about me or my life. the beginning of this year has been so rough for me that i don’t even have social media on my mind, i have depression, anxiety, adhd and i already had 6 losses this year so it’s been HECTIC and he KNOWS. although he doesn’t believe in any of the mental issues because he’s not that type of guy, i have stopped communicating with him about my issues in depth because he’s always says things i don’t want or need to hear, or he makes a mean comment about my mental state. he’s an amazing boyfriend, he loves me and provides me with everything , despite us being LDR atm i plan on moving in with him later this year already. im just torn that if im actually a bad gf for not posting him a lot ? he said “ if you continue to be the same way then i know where you stand “ like what ? i’m so confused and bummed out, i don’t have anyone to talk to about this. i sent me money to buy myself food today and as i showed him the food i got he said “ and i still don’t get posted “ it made me feel horrible and wish i hadn’t even ate the food at that point.