Should I stop telling my parents about my marriage search to avoid nazar?

Basically had a good thing going with someone I was talking to until they suddenly ghosted me after I told my parents. They disapproved of her background and kept screaming saying they wouldn't come to my wedding. So now I'm considering completely leaving them out of my marriage search process because I don't need permission since I'm not a woman and I've been searching for myself for years without their help anyway. I say Ayatul Kursi often after every salah so I thought I'd be protected from nazar but I can't help but have a very very bad gut feeling both of my parents gave me nazar and made dua against me. They definitely damaged any trust I had left because this is the second time they complained about a choice I had