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Esac90

35 [F4F] #California #Online - looking for smutty writing buddies, artists, and FFXIV players.

NSFWF4F California / Online

Hey ladies~

You can call me Emi. To not waste time: i love writing roleplays and smut so like i need someone that is at least on that level. I need someone with similar hobbies otherwise it’s not really all that fun or interesting to me. Pretty sure is the ‘tism in me that makes it so. No sexting, you do that and I am blocking you.

I love writing. I love world building, \*a lot\*. Like seriously all I want is to play imaginary Barbie’s with someone and they smooch lol. Idk what’s so hard about that. I’m a giant nerd. I love sword and magic, romance, angsty stuff and some sprinkled dark stuff in there. I love grim fantasy. I never grew up past the edgy vibes in the 90s lol.

35, nerdy and kinda easy going with a sprinkle of autism gremlin energy. Before you ask I am gothy in my own way (I am lazy and don’t like dressing up all that often unless I feel like it). I love botanical gardens, museums, writing roleplays, drawing both on pencil and paper and digitally (been doing this on and off for over 10 years). Art is a big part of my life, as is writing.

I’m the kind of person that likes doing activities with people. Otherwise if we have nothing in common I am mentally tuning out. That’s just kind of how I am, we either share similar hobbies or play games together, no in between.

I don’t like wasting people’s time. Not into dating either, just strictly friendship. I hate having to remind people that the characters I write/play as are not me. Do not flirt with me, I’m too asexual with that shit.

Only kind of romance I like are our original characters falling for each other (or ships we both enjoy). I’m more into fictional men and women, lol. And since Garrus Vakarian isn’t real, nor is the Sphinx from dragon’s dogma 2, neither are werewolves, it’s uh… it’s a bummer lol. I honestly like monster designs and creature concepts a lot.

I like movies too. Mostly just fantasy or maybe some sci-fi. Lord of the Rings is a major comfort one.

Anime is another thing I like too. And documentaries! Also the BBC version of Pride and Prejudice is a comfort series, as is avatar the last Airbender (I didn’t like the Korra one much).

Also does anyone do HEMA stuff? I’ve been wanting to get back into a club sport thing of some kind. Fencing and polearms stuff looks so cool.

ALSO

I’m lookin for more people who play FFXIV! All of my friends have quit so I’m just playing by myself nowadays and it gets boring.

Posted Mar 14, 2026, 12:27 AM UTC · locked

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