22 [M4F] Virginia (Hampton Roads): Nerdy firefighter looking around for a semi consistent partner for irl fun and good convos!

Wow alone on a Friday night huh? Just me? Well maybe you could help fix that! Imma try and keep this one short for you and we'll kinda just see where it goes.

You can call me Jay! A now 22yo white guy in the Hampton-ish area who's been a firefighter for about a year and a half by now, and recently a certified paramedic too. Been doing EMS stuff for almost 3 years now and it has basically been my life ever since aha. Unlike what you're thinking I'm not big burly mustachioed and am in fact an awkward lanky nerd who enjoys treks through the woods, video games, board games, and insert whatever else nerdy you can think of here. Still living with my parents for the time being because I like raking in money but I do have my own car for whatever I might need aha. Anyways, I introduce myself as a whole much better on my profile, so I should probably just describe why I'm here in this subreddit huh?

Quite simply I'm poking around here for someone to have a fun time or ongoing thing with in the bedroom! I'm trying to find that perfect partner who we click with well together and turn it into a consistent thing, since all the people I've been with never made it past fling territory. I'm hoping to find someone out there who's looking for a mutual benefit thing where we can make the weeks a little less stressful together! Sexually speaking I'm relatively inexperienced and generally pretty vanilla, the kinda guy who thinks missionary and making out is fun haha, but I have my buttons here and there for you to find out too. A lot of my enjoyment comes from giving my partner their fun, and I believe in doing my fair share in bed too. I suppose you can say I'm not that dominant in bed and like someone who can take the lead sometimes, but I enjoy being the one in control too. I'm the kinda person who likes a few days of flirting and getting a feel of each other's vibe instead of jumping into sex 2 hours within knowing each other. More than anything I'm looking for connection, and casual experiences without much stress. I'm happy to find someone to talk about things on a day to day too, and to have meaningful conversations with! I put a lot of importance into finding someone who can aftercare ramble with me and is generally fun to listen to outside of sex. And if things end up growing I'm always interested to see where things take me!

Quick important things to know:

• I cannot host or anything, but I can drive and I'm willing to travel about an hour or so around (Richmond is a possibility haha) and I'm willing to pitch in to make arrangements outside of home if needed

• I have no preference on age! All are welcome

• I do have a preference against couples! I want either someone who's single or someone to myself. Sorry fellas I like girls only, they're just too pretty

• Couple of SFW pics on my profile, I'm more than happy to share more of me when we text!

• I don't smoke sorry y'all (can't for my job)

• I am recently clean tested and will show proof if asked :)

• When you DM me please have your first message include ASL at the very least so that I can get a decent idea of who I'm talking to! The more you say the more you'll catch my attention

• That's about it, I'm pretty easy to work with I think haha. Ask me questions, talk about what you want, I'm a sucker for communication <3

If you're looking around for a guy to fool around with and give you something to look forward to during the week, feel free to DM me and we can see where it goes ;)