Married SDs: Is sugaring temporary… or a lifestyle?

Curious question for the married SDs here.

Do you see sugaring as something temporary that you eventually grow out of if you meet the right person, or is it more of a long-term lifestyle for you?

The reason I’m asking is because I recently read a post from an SB who ended up marrying her SD. They originally met while he was still married, and some of the responses were skeptical about whether that kind of situation can really turn into a stable long-term relationship.

It made me curious how SDs themselves view it. Is sugaring usually about the excitement of meeting someone new and temporary, or do some of you genuinely feel that if you meet the right person, you could settle down and leave the lifestyle behind?

And for those who are married and currently sugaring — how long did you contemplate entering the lifestyle before you actually did it?