diagnosis help

Hello. I am 17 and I have researched about the symptoms of Inattentive ADHD. by research I mean that I've looked up the symptoms as one would. Done a variety of online tests and questionaires and spent a ridiculous amount of time on what people who have been diagnosed with inattentive ADHD have said about their personal experiences, both before and after being diagnosed. I resonate with 99% of everything these people have recounted. I may be overreacting or something but I've seen way too much evidence that points that there's some reason I am this way and what these people have said is so extremely accurate to my experiences I decided to post this even if I am wrong or get hate. I am sorry if I turn out to be.

I hate forming schedules and my parents have said that I struggle with projects from the moment I was born. (they are not lying even though I feel they exaggerate it to make fun). I struggle with schedules but my dad loves to maintain a perfect schedule and order and stuff. I used to get very good grades consistently(my parents managed my grades and stuff all the time so theyd find any assignemnts id stuff into my bag and not do and id do it. I also was extremely socially awkward around new people so I had very few friends and i didnt talk to them online because of stranger danger, social awkwardness and religiousness. sounds dumb ik but theres a lot to explain on that end. anyway lack of socialization from 5th to 8th from covid and moving countries to home country then back to the US from 8th to 10th end didnt help. anyway this adhd thingi snt just recent cuz of these things. every second of every day if im not perfectly distracting i lose myself in my thoughts which hate me or daydream about stuff. ( this isnt everything but i cant post everything) anyway i want to get diagnosed but my parents believe doctors give out diagnoses to squeeze money from the medicines out of us and wont take me seriously if i talk about this. someone give advice