I don't say this in gotcha statement way but

If you truly believe that men and women are equal why do you want to transition? Are there things that men do that you don't think women can do? Or are there things that women do that men can't do? Legally, this is not the case. Systematically sure but the discrimination trans people face is often worse. If it's something like wearing a dress or makeup, you can, it's not illegal. But why the need to make other people see you in a certain way. If people don't acknowledge your chosen pronouns or identity, that is rude but certainly not oppression. I am genuinely trying to understand why there is such struggle and pain that people go through.