i am the biggest fear of you asian guys. i’m a 6’2, 7.5”, 20yo white guy. without actively seeking them out, i’ve seen 8 asian women. i have never asked one out, came onto them, etc.
i’m a normal white guy. prior to college, i saw three - i was each of their first kisses. then, i moved to NYC for college. immediately, FOBs and asian-american girls started hitting on me.
eventually, i let one take my virginity, and took two more first kisses.
i’m pretty great by any standards, but the idea that that many asian girls flock to white men has to be difficult. i love it, but must be difficult for you guys.
Posted Mar 14, 2026, 3:19 AM UTC
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