physical intimacy

the man i had just previously dated for the past 8 months barely touched me for the last six of those months. he would always say he wasn’t in the mood for sex, and when we would have sex he always made sure to say “yea you’ve been asking to have sex so i thought we could do it today”. it never felt like he wanted to have sex with me because he is attracted to me. he always made it out to seem like a chore. i would sometimes ask to cuddle and he would groan and roll his eyes, most of the time say no and occasionally reluctantly said i guess. when he would spend the night he slept on the couch. i went on his phone when he first started to act this way and i did end up seeing nude photos of girls he saw on reddit. they looked nothing like me :/ the times i’ve voiced how this made me feel, he would tell me it had nothing to do with my looks. i didn’t and still don’t believe that. dating him made me lose my confidence. he treated me like my feelings weren’t important or real.