I need a specific Iyanla: Fix My Life moment

There's this video I quote all the time. I first saw it on The Soup with Joel McHale and then later on stan twitter. In the clip Iyanla is talking to a woman wh is in tears and she says "does this sound like something you want? because guess what, you'll never get it."

its absolutely insane and I can't find the clip to show my husband what I'm referring to.