I cant decide what to do about my love life. Help. 31M

So lets go back a bit. About a year or so ago after a long span of being single and building my self I decided it was time to start dating again.

Few months here with one girl 27F. Only for it to end with her not wanting a real relationship. A couple months with another girl 23F again not looking for anything serious. Then over half a year with a girl 31F I went to kindergarten with. That one really messed me up.

Ever since that one ended I havnt felt any sense od happiness since. Ever since ive simply been going through one girl after another physically without any real substance.

Im just moving through life depressed. Work. Women. Talking to as many as I can simply to feel something. All with no luck.

So here is my ask.

What the hell should I be doing to solve my problem of not feeling desired?

It feels like every women i try to talk to either only wants something physical or is for a lack of a better word crazy. Im depressed and cant figure out what the hell i should be doing.

I make okay money. Im established and independent. Im relatively attractive. Yet everyone i attract only wants to use me for one thing or another.

Ask questions needed. I need help.