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cakekyo

I am sad because I want friends.

rant

Hello, I do not mean to be misogynistic with this post. I love women, it is just that girlfriends are not long-lasting. Once they marry, have children and so on they leave.

I am a 32yr old woman whose social circle has basically disappeared because they forgot there were people outside their home.

Men are more long lasting but I have seen that most men I am really fond of are married and I want a deep connection with my friends. I have distanced myself from two married men because both developed feelings for me and both wanted to be loyal to their wives, thankfully.

But that leaves me with no friends and heartbroken. I really loved both men. We had amazing time together as friends.

This is so frustrating.

Posted Mar 14, 2026, 3:28 AM UTC

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