33 [M4A] #online #germany Experienced Dom/Switch looking for kinky friends and maybe more

NSFWM4A

Hey everyone,

I'm looking for something slightly different than most here I guess. I am looking for a close friendship where kink isn't a taboo topic. I am quite open minded where it goes, platonic, sexual, romantic, but the main goal is just having a nice connection to people who share that "hobby". Since I am 15 years experienced in the scene I am also happy to teach and mentor newcomers into the scene.

So my kinks are mostly revolving around pain and orgasm denial. I prefer being mentally soft and physically rough. Enjoy petplay and dd/l, brat taming, playful humiliation, praise, bondage and CNC. I'm mostly Dom leaning with some occasional switch moments for the right person.

I highly value doing bdsm the safe way, both physically and mentally. So lots of communication and proper aftercare.

Outside of kink I'm a goofy talkative person, very nerdy, full of random funfacts and bad jokes. I work in academic research, I love nature and animals, I enjoy reading and writing, hiking and biking, gardening and carpentry. I really like learning new things and sharing them with people I like excitedly.

I'm poly and partnered, vegetarian, politically quite leftwing, pansexual, occasional stoner.

Who I am looking for is quite open honestly. Just be willing to actually invest some time into a new friendship and see what that leads to. Just not interested in intolerant people and those that practise bdsm in an unsafe way and have no intention to fix that.

Would love to get to know you!

Posted Mar 14, 2026, 6:14 AM UTC · locked

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