dating someone from a different socioeconomic background
problem/goal: i started talking to someone and they are well off and i am not so i feel intimidated by that
context: we are both 19f and first year college students. date to marry ako and i genuinely enjoy talking to her and i feel like we are very aligned naman sa things. wala pa naman kaming label and nag uusap pa lang pero mayaman sya and poorita lang kami. i am not against that naman at all, naiintimidate lang ako dahil hindi ko sya kaya sabayan. she's a busy person at napagsasabay nya yung studies and work (sabi nya sakin she genuinely enjoys yung work nya and okay lang daw sa kanya minsan na di maka sahod kasi she's passionate about it) at magkaiba talaga ang budget namin. love language pa nya yung giving/receiving gifts kaya mas naiintimidate ako dahil i feel the need para tapatan kung ano man iggive nya sakin eh palamunin pa lang aq ng magulang ko and umaasa lang sa allowance. may potential naman yung relationship naminnn and i rly enjoy yung dynamics namin rn na kahit busy is parang di pa din disconnected and informed pa din sa isat isa 😿😿😿
Posted Mar 14, 2026, 6:16 AM UTC