as an aroace writer who sometimes struggles creating sexual tension to make characters do the bonk-bonk, the tag "accidental stimulation" has become my life raft

i love basing fics around that tag or reading fics with that as the main plot!! but man, i'm kinda bummed it isn't used as frequently in fics compared to the more common spicy tags 😭 i am brainstorming up a new idea for my next dead dove fic about "accidental stimulation" right now and was wondering if anyone else loves that tag as well?