Losing virginity to tinder hookup

tldr: hookup on second date with tinder guy. he knew about my virginity after we talked about it on the first date. i’m not sure how he feels about it/me. ended up hooking up on second date.

On the first date, i invited him over to my apt after matching. i told him that i was still a virgin when he asked about body count. he was surprised but would still be pretty horny but trying to be careful? He would ask to have sex a couple times through the date but I would decline and we did other things instead. He left around 3/4 am and didn’t text. I had texted him the morning after that i had a good time. and he doesn’t respond. He didn’t respond until i initiated later in the week for a second date. He couldn’t make the second date and he didn’t reach out to meet until a week later. I agreed the next day and he came over around 11pm and after hooking up, we smoked and watched an hour of tv and then he left at 1 saying he had work in the morning at 8. If he really enjoyed the sex or me, would he have left afterwards? I understand that the basis of hookups is to not meet again but i’d like to meetup in the future as fwbs, how do i go about communicating that?