Can I 25/F find love?
I 25/F have a rather stupid question, so I’m not where I want to be in life.
I’ve never been in love and I don’t know how other people meet their partners in life.
I have to start all over again and go back to college because I failed, but I fear that that will delay my love life.
I know you don’t need a degree to be with someone but **what advice do you have for someone having these thoughts?**
There is someone M/30 who I met but I’m embarrassed I’m not perfect for a relationship yet.
Like I want to be
-finished with degree.
-have my own stable income.
-have gone to therapy (rather easy).
-get out of my abusive household and so on.
I also have to dream of studying abroad, I know long distance is possible and doable.
I’m a very loyal person but at the same time, I don’t wanna have to put someone else through it and then they break up with me or find someone else and waste their time.
**TL;DR; : This is a sample summary of the TLDR rule, all things are bold. what advice do you have for someone having these thoughts?**.
Posted Mar 14, 2026, 6:28 AM UTC · locked