Can I 25/F find love?

I 25/F have a rather stupid question, so I’m not where I want to be in life.

I’ve never been in love and I don’t know how other people meet their partners in life.

I have to start all over again and go back to college because I failed, but I fear that that will delay my love life.

I know you don’t need a degree to be with someone but **what advice do you have for someone having these thoughts?**

There is someone M/30 who I met but I’m embarrassed I’m not perfect for a relationship yet.

Like I want to be

-finished with degree.

-have my own stable income.

-have gone to therapy (rather easy).

-get out of my abusive household and so on.

I also have to dream of studying abroad, I know long distance is possible and doable.

I’m a very loyal person but at the same time, I don’t wanna have to put someone else through it and then they break up with me or find someone else and waste their time.

**TL;DR; : This is a sample summary of the TLDR rule, all things are bold. what advice do you have for someone having these thoughts?**.

Posted Mar 14, 2026, 6:28 AM UTC · locked

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