Unlike GenZ who doesn't have a problem being articulate about carnal desires, how people in 30s deal with a situation in love/arranged marriages where it's still a taboo?

A long time back someone on a post about discussing carnal desires (as a male) to their partner, I saw some people talking about how their partners are not on the same page as them. Few men pointed out how asking for more sexual intimacy is frowned upon by their spouses with replies like "you always think about that, is that why you married me?" Or "it's immoral!" whenever they want to try something new.

To those men in such marriages, do you feel trapped or at later point does the spouse agree to be open-minded? And, if in case you are going to marry and have high libido, how would you handle asking such a question to your future spouse (to all 90s kids)?