Graduated 4 years ago. I’m thriving, but my friends aren't even trying. Am I wrong for being disappointed in them?

I have multiple group of friends. Some from school, some from college and some from bachelors. Its been more than 4 years since we graduated and none of my friends have decent job/earning.

No hate to any of them but I feel like we are missing out on a lot of plans. Not just travel plans but also career/investment plans. I initiate most of the hangout and low budget plans and I happily contribute wherever possible. That being said, I cannot initiate any sort of plans/trips thats not really low budget friendly.

If they had been little more serious on studies/career I feel like we could have been 10X better at this point of time. WE not just me. We could have done something together. I sometimes feel so disappointed that we are not there.

I am not sure if its even valid to have thoughts like this as people have their own pace in life and I understand that.