25M recently broken up with my GF (24F) and had a fake restraining order against me?

It was a messy situation. My girlfriend broke up with me over the phone without any explanation at all.

So the story goes like, I had an emergency issue at a foreign nation (not named for privacy issue) and she is from that nation. It was an emergency situation hence I called her many times for help, however, she did not pick up. When she picked it up, she dismissed my matter entirely and say she wanted to break up. Surprisingly her dad (her dad never knew about us because she wanted it to be underground) took over the phone and start to threaten me saying he will send people to beat me up at the airport and claimed that he was an “ex-cop”. Hence, I was scared and alone at the airport. When I arrive home, I tried to bring flowers and chocolates for her, and her dad stepped in and this time he showed me a restraining order. I was so panicked that I hired a lawyer straightaway. The lawyer said that the restraining order was fake because I did not receive any email about that and no cops visited my house to notice me about the order. However, before that incident that was no sign of relationship deterioration except for her reduced attention and energy spent on me because she recently started a corporate job. She said she felt tired everyday after work and always sleep early after work. However, she never text me until I initiate the text ever since she gotten her. I have lost my way now and I don’t know what is the right move anymore.

Posted Mar 14, 2026, 6:30 AM UTC

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