I still miss my ex but I’m making plans with someone else

27F I think about my ex (27M) every single day. I miss him and I really wish we could have a conversation, but… he hasn’t spoken to me in about five months. We’ve actually been separated for almost two years.

Even though I still love him, suffer a lot, and think about him all the time, I ended up reconnecting with someone I’ve always gotten along with very well. We started talking about living together and even about having kids.

He’s 30M, an incredible guy—hard-working and intelligent. I’ve known him for more than 10 years and we’ve always had a great relationship and yeah I’m kinda needy for love and caring

I don’t know if I’m doing the right thing, but at the same time I don’t want to keep waiting for my ex anymore. I want to start having my own family.