My boyfriend cums really fast and doesn’t have a high sex drive. I am the exact opposite.
My (F22) boyfriend (M24) has expressed to me that he feels embarrassed to have sex with me because he can never make me cum and he feels emasculated.
We have had many talks about this issue and he is trying but it just takes me a while to get there. We didn’t used to have this problem, until it started happening all the time.
A couple weeks ago we had sex that lasted about 2 minutes (including foreplay) and I admit I got really frustrated after and acted distant toward him.
This was the third time in a row we had unsatisfying sex. He does eat me out but not very well and I feel like if I tell him that he will feel even more uncomfortable. He has also experienced sexual trauma when he was young and doesn’t have a high sex drive.
I really do. How am i supposed to make this work someone please help!!!
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Posted Mar 14, 2026, 6:32 AM UTC