advice on how to move out of my parents house once im old enough/financially stable
im so tired of living with my parents. I’ve been emotionally and physically abused by them my whole life and they’re constantly shoving religion down my throat. I’ve never gotten along with them and theres no sort of love between us. I don’t think they would accept me for who I am (amongst a lot of things they disapprove of, im queer and we have many differing beliefs — esp the religion thing)
im turning 18 soon (currently in poly) and I work part time (trying to be as frugal as possible).
my father is very calculative, everything is so transactional with him. im sure he feels like hes wasted his money on me over the years. I doubt I hold any true value to him bc being his offspring has never given him enough reason to view me as human.
im just SO tired of this bs.
to any Singaporeans in the same situation/have already moved out/just been living independently in this country, any advice that would be useful for me is appreciated 🙏
Posted Mar 14, 2026, 6:33 AM UTC