This may be the wrong platform, but I want to try and see if someone can give me some productive advice. My fiancé is an MD Radiodiagnosis PG3. Medical Residency is notoriously difficult. He has upcoming internals, finals, then FRCR Part 2, then NEET Superspecialisation Exams - which I guess is a normal number of exams for weirdos in medicine.

He's struggling to focus, not getting enough sleep with his emergency duties, demotivated, and basically a shell of his usual self.

I'm in a high stress job myself - also in the healthcare sector - and he's always been such a sweet man when I'm having bad days. I want to extend that same courtesy to him - but he's not very receptive to my attempts right now. Nothing I do seems to help, I'm trying my best despite my limited bandwidth.

This normally wouldn't concern me; he's a smart guy and is more than capable of managing his study schedule. But we're getting married in a couple of months and I feel awful seeing him so dull, stressed, and helpless. It seems like he's procrastinating and also parallely feeling like shit about it. Looks like he's completely given up on academics, but he's enjoying his hands-on practice. What can I do to help?

Helping my academically overwhelmed and tired fiancé?