How to do when it's not a central part of your sexuality?

I can't even imagine how hard it must be for you to find the perfect partner, and I feel for you.

For me, scat is a “bonus” in my sexuality. It’s something I indulge in a few times a year, no more, but I also can’t see myself completely setting aside this dirty side of me.

The problem is that when I talk to people into scat, it’s always THE main fetish in their sex life. And I’m not judging at all—it’s fine—but it poses a compatibility issue. I can accept this aspect of their lives, which is already liberating for them (just as it is for me), but I can’t see myself participating in it regularly.

I feel like I’m in a limbo where there’s no one else but me. Especially since, on the other hand, when I’m in the mood, I can do extreme things in scat, without going into detail.

I’m not really sure what I’m looking for with this post lol. Maybe stories from other people besides me? Because I feel like we’re invisible.