I have a feeling I'm genderqueer, but I'm not sure how I tell others about it without being called weird / bringing religion into the conversation

Long story short; I live in a small country town where not many people are queer/ accepting of queer people. I'm also not sure if I like being referred to as She/Her anymore. I can tell my mom and friends pretty okay (since they are pretty accepting people) but it might get weird for other people in my life. How exactly do I fix this problem?