Opinions expressed online vs real life

I have recently realised whenever I saw something online I'm hated on so hard and with such absurd arguments. I will be saying smth totally different and they will totally twist my words. Same conversation I will have irl with people and they will most of the time agree with me or share their different opinion with proper logic. I don't have any personal example in mind RN but here is one of someone else's.

Recently I came across a video where a foreign girl was getting catcalled by local man. One local content creator said how this is so disappointing and embarrassing for his country. People piled on him so much saying he's trying to get into the foreign girl's pants,fake feminist, u never gonna get that citizenship and so much more. His replies were really respectful and relevant but others kept pointing out that he's like a femboy. I don't think so he is imo. At the same time when what the content creator said, was said in a real life group settings and everyone agreed.