Me ( 27F) have not been intimate with my boyfriend (23M) since December

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year or so now and the intimacy has declined a lot.

In the beginning, we had sex maybe once every other week ( his sex drive was low, mine was high).

Now throughout the time we have had a lot of back and forth arguments ( his goal, moving out his moms/getting a car). There was a time I was very frustrated with him cause I felt like he wasn’t doing much to change his situation ( kinda still feel the same) starting to think that I am simply just turned off. The other day, I did attempt to initiate but just stopped and went back to what I was doing. My thoughts lately have been he is a good person but doesn’t love me in the way I would like or maybe we are just incompatible

He thinks doing the basics as boyfriend makes him the best thing yet but to me it’s like okay??? You’re supposed to do that.