26 [M4F] #Netherlands #Online Nerdy sub looking for a gentle Domme
Hello there!
I am a 26M from the Netherlands and I'm looking for a gentle dominant woman to ideally build a serious and monogamous long term relationship with. It would be amazing if you had an interest in gaming, anime, sci-fi or fantasy. I find it way easier to bond over a shared interested outside of a kinky relationship. I would love to find a woman who naturally takes the lead and loves to be the 'main character' and respects me for being my more quiet submissive self. This goes for both inside and outside the bedroom.
My kinky self is an important part of me that I would really like to explore and embrace more. So even if you are not interested in anything long term or serious, feel free to message me.
About me
= Personality =
I am introverted, honest, respectful, open-minded, caring and loyal. I am very open to trying new things. I really enjoy supporting others without being the center of attention. Just a heads up, I might not be the best with words, but I try my best to make up for that with actions. I love spending quality time together. Honest and open communication are very important to me. I love honest and straight forward people!
= Hobbies =
In my free-time I usually play lots of different games on PC, from competitive games to more casual stuff. I really enjoy co-op games, Warframe is one of my favorites, but I am also getting back into LoL. I think my steam library currently contains about 800 games and I am always open to trying new games!
I like to watch anime, movies, TV-shows, some e-sports and random informational videos on YouTube.
I enjoy being outdoors as well, but only when the weather is nice :p I like to do various activities like, Biking, Hiking and Bouldering.
= Physically =
I am 172 cm, 66 kg, average build I would say. Dark-blonde, blue eyes, short beard and glasses. I work out regularly to stay in shape.
= Professionally =
I have a 9-5 office job, which I've been quite content with. Financially stable, but still kind of getting the hang of living on my own.
Kinky me
I would describe myself as naturally submissive. I definitely lean more towards a gentle style of being dominated and I love to obey and satisfy my partner; it brings me so much joy! So, the most important kinks for me are: Gentle Femdom and Mommydom. Besides that, I am into a lot of things like, JOI, edging, Milking, light cbt, Hypnotism, Forced Bi, CEI, bondage, anal play and pegging. I mentioned I am very open-minded; this also counts for kinks. I am down to try anything at least once. Sidenote, I don't mind switching every once in a while, but it's not a must from my side.
= Limits =
Findom or any sort of payment, extreme pain, permanent damage, gore, blood.
Who am i looking for?
A wonderful gentle woman to explorer with and hopefully build a relationship with, though the latter is not a must. I’d prefer it if we lived close, so we could move things offline once we are both comfortable with that. It would be amazing if you had an interest in gaming, anime, sci-fi or some other nerdy hobby! I find it way easier to bond over a shared interest outside of a kinky relationship. I would love to find a woman who naturally takes the lead and loves to be the 'main character' and respects me for being my quieter submissive self. This goes for both inside and outside the bedroom. Honest and open communication are very important to me. I love honest and straight forward people! Also I love listening to people rant about their interests.
Please send a message if I piqued your interest :) I'm open to switching platforms.
Feel free to ask me anything and thank you very much for reading!
Posted Mar 14, 2026, 7:12 AM UTC