I got a question. Can anyone help out? Please?
Hi Hi! I'm a male sub and recently I have been feeling super submissive, like just wanting to give up control and be obedient, like not think at all, I don't know how to put this exactly. This has happened before, yes, but it would go away after I engrossed myself in work or games. But nowadays this has been happening more regularly and engrossing myself in games and work isn't helping much. Is this normal? If so, how do you guys cope with this?
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For more context, I am single and bisexual and I think this started to happen more after I explored my body and focused on playing with my nipples more. I have been able to achieve an orgasm (rather consistently) just by playing with my nipples now. Wearing a blindfold and wearing stockings/thighhighs/tights help me relax more and that helps me reach a HFO more consistently. But, does that have any relation to me feeling more submissive? If anyone has any ideas, please do answer or reach out. I am rather curious as to why could this be happening.
Posted Mar 14, 2026, 7:16 AM UTC