why ppl dont like us

idk if it makes sense but i feel like maybe one of the reasons why we haven't gone as far as we could like in terms of rights is bc of how were seen like generally yk

i mean that like most of the trans ppl that ppl know are kind of yk loud and annoying and too sensitive right, like those videos that the podcasters react to of like some person with blue hair and a bunch of piercings exaggerating yk getting misgendered somewhere or smth like that, and then from those very few ppl that are ridiculous and super unreasonable more ppl start thinking that were all like this yk like woke and loud and counterculture when i mean personally none of my trans friends are like that and im sure most of us aren't like that either yk were normal

but anyways ppl dont see us as normal bc of that and that can make those who were neutral abt us be against us or it gives an even bigger reason for those who already dont like us to act against us right, bc barely anybody could like those ppl on fox news or on matt walsh that are just like awful examples of trans ppl so i mean idk i think that something should happen abt that like we should try to fix that bc if we dont then it kind of looks like we'll keep going backwards

also i just wanted to say that english is not my first language so if this sounds very aggressive or off im very sorry that's not how i mean it