Why do gay men always approach me, but women never do?
This is confusing me more than it should.
19M straight
I get approached by gay men very frequently and sometimes daily. They compliment me a lot and are very direct. Some want hookups, others even say they’re interested in something serious.
But from women, I get absolutely nothing. No compliments, no approaching at all
So what does this actually mean? Am I considered attractive and just not to women? Or is there something I’m completely missing?
How do you even know if you’re attractive to women if they never show it?
Posted Mar 23, 2026, 4:56 AM UTC
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