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I 18m was at a friend’s house also 18m, as a friend group we go to his house all the time to hang out and his family recently got a hot tub in their back garden.

He was having a bit of a function over the weekend. There’s 2 guys in this friend group I’ll call James and Dylan. James is gay, Dylan is like discreetly bi ish, he never talks about it but we all know he is, he’s admitted it and he’s made out with James at different functions and other guys too.

We’re about to get changed for the hot tub, I ask to go inside to his bathroom to do it (we’re in a room in his garage) and guy who’s house it is said the girls are using in their for that and also joked “is it small” everyone else starts getting changed I wait.

I notice because they weren’t trying to hide it, like it was so obvious. Before they started Dylan and James did this whole silent conversation with their expressions where they basically go “I show you me naked? You show me you naked?” With their eyes and head movements etc. and it’s not that I want to see this it’d where I’m sitting I can’t not even when on my phone and I can’t dramatically move without drawing attention to it which in the moment I didn’t want to do.

So they stare at each other while getting undressed and once clothes are off start making the least subtle gestures and expressions ever. Like just disgusting I don’t want to repeat them. Well some of it was just over the top eyes widening and smirks but others were like subtle suggestive mimicking actions.

I be respectful and wait till everyone’s got something on to say right that’s just being disgusting you don’t do that around other people. And I tell the guy whose house it is (in a jokey way but also just letting him genuinely know) not to let Dylan or James alone anywhere in his house.

Everyone’s like what are you talking about don’t think they seen as they were changing and I was sitting in the worst spot to see. I explain what Dylan and James were doing and it gets some laughs, but then I’m told by the guy who’s house it is and someone else to lighten up and I’m being hostile for no reason? Dylan even apologised before that. James had nothing to say.

I say it’s just not respectful and you keep that thing like outside the view of others who don’t want to be part of it that’s not a big ask like that’s completely wrong. House guy tells me I’m getting worked up over nothing. I said that’s dismissive and MOST PEOPLE don’t want that around them and he says I need to chill people flirt get over myself and I’m making a scene for no reason?