The Caterpillars have grown into Butterflies

Love & Relationships

Problem/Goal:

It’s been a week since I last saw him, and I can’t stop thinking about him.

Context:

I have a coworker (from a different branch) who I’ve been casually talking to on social media since December 2025. We first met at their branch party—nag-inuman, and he ended up sitting beside me. From that moment, tuloy-tuloy na yung kwentuhan namin until matapos yung night.

At that time, wala naman akong feelings for him—at least, I thought so. He even mentioned before na inaasar daw siya sa office nila because of what happened that night.

Last week, we saw each other again here at our branch for a project. And honestly, something felt different. The way he treated me—his gestures, how he talked to me, even asking me to sit beside him during lunch—it felt… a bit special? I thanked him sa pagdayo niya and for helping us out sa project, he said na "ikaw pa ba?" Parang sa akin lang siya ganun. I feel like I’m starting to fall for him. :(

Previous Attempts / Thoughts:

Before, when we first started chatting, I tried to gauge if he liked me. I’m used to guys being direct—like my past relationships or ka-landian, umaamin agad sila—so I don’t overthink. But with him, I really can’t tell.

I’m not sure if he likes me or if I’m just overthinking everything. Should I confess na ba sa kanya?

Posted Mar 24, 2026, 11:37 AM UTC

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