Recommendation: 40+ and 36F

Help wanted!! Desperate for new bras!!

Looking for a bra that helps my shirts be flatter and doesn't look like my grandma would wear it! Last one I had that I loved is skins with mesh and they don't make it anymore 🙁

Requirements:

• supports and lifts (I find they need both these days!)

• side control - I have fat on my side boob by my armpit - some bras amplify that

• back band - similarly skinny bra bands that cut in or emphasize that are not welcome!

• unlined, not molded cups - I hate molded cups!

• huge minimized cups - no thank you! I don't need to feel like my breasts are up by my chin nor that you can see the bra in a standard v shape T-shirt

I'm 40+ and a 36F