37[M4F] #online - nerdy guy who looking for his nerdy girl

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Hey there I’m an bit of an introverted guy with ADHD, which basically means I live in the space between hyper-fixation and forgetting why I walked into the kitchen. I figured I’d throw myself into the chaos of reddit dating to see if there are cool people out there to chat with, befriend, or maybe more — I’m not putting a label on it yet.

A bit about me:

*I’m a huge fan of old-school metal — the kind that rattles your bones and makes you feel like you’re about to conquer a dungeon. If you can name-drop bands from the classics, we’ll probably get along.

*Video games are a big part of my downtime.My current favourites are Metal Gear Solid 3, Final Fantasy XIV, and Baldur’s Gate 3. If you’re into gaming, I’m always down to trade stories about boss fights, questionable dialogue choices, or why stealth always goes wrong for me about two minutes in.

*My comfort movie is Ghostbusters — I’ve watched it more times than I can count, and yes, I quote it at random.

*My comfort show is Band of Brothers, which I rewatch at least once a year because it’s just that good.

*When I’m not doing any of the above, I’m usually building LEGO sets. There’s just something zen about clicking bricks together and ending up with a spaceship, castle, or whatever random thing I decided was “essential” that week.

I’m introverted by nature, but that doesn’t mean I don’t love getting to know new people. My ideal first chat? Just some genuine back-and-forth, trading stories, nerding out about music, games, or movies, and seeing if we click.

What I’m looking for: honestly, no idea

Posted Mar 27, 2026, 8:03 PM UTC

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