Unhappily Married 44 M4F #Virginia.

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Let's get the common stuff out of the way.

Yes I am real. No this is not a scam. No I am not selling anything. No I don't have OF.

If you chuckled at the absurdity of the above statement, then I think we have a reason to talk with each other.

I am a 44 year old man living in Virgina, the eastern part of Virginia to be a little more exact with the closest beach being only ten minutes away.

I am 6 feet 3 inches with short light brown hair, broad chest and shoulders and a strong back. I have a bit of a dadbod but I am a work in progress as I move towards my more ideal physicality. I have lost 35 pounds since I started to get back into shape and I show no signs of stopping now. I go to the gym a minimum of three times a week, maybe more if I have the time.

I have a very high sex drive and I am dominant in the bedroom. But, that compares little to my mind. I am sarcastic, quick witted and can often tell a joke without breaking a smile, making it that much funnier when people think I am being 100% serious.

I enjoy reading, getting outside on walks along the beach but I also enjoy just watching a good movie. I also do have a hobby which I enjoy doing several nights a week.

I am stuck in a dead bedroom marriage. I have not had sex with the spouse in almost eight months now. I had a previous AP which last for over a year but decided to go our super ways.

I am looking for a woman who is both intellectually and physically stimulating. I want to get to know you here some before we move to a more secure and discrete form of communication. OPSEC is very important to me and it should be to you also. I won't ask for a picture right away but I will ask for it as let's face it, while you can stimulate my mind, you also have to be able to stimulate elsewhere on my body. And I would expect I do the same to you and will glad reciprocate the picture.

I want to be able to get to know you online and then in person when we feel it is right. So, being able to travel or being close by enough to see each other is something we would need to accommodate.

Let's chat and see where things go.

Posted Mar 27, 2026, 8:03 PM UTC

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