I'd love some suggestions on what to do with my hair, makeup, etc. ❤️

I know I gotta lose weight :( It's happening, but slowly... And I'd like a breast lift because they hang down to my goddamn waist but I want to have kids so that apparently must wait... That's the only hardmaxxing I'll probably consider because 1) I'm poor and 2) Operations scare me!!!

My hair tangles really easy and it's already getting too long to manage (pic 1 for current style and length) so it's time for a cut. I keep toying with getting a bixie and have done for years... But I think it'd probably look really bad on me even though I want one so bad. I had a pixie when I was 18-20 and that looked pretty good but I've gained a lot of weight since then and I just think that makes a big impact :/ So maybe just a trim and some new curtain bangs?? (I was growing them out... But I miss them 💔)

Some other info I guess: Live in UK. I work in a museum so not a high powered office job or anything... But I still feel I look sloppy and would like to feel more confident. I'm autistic and have chronic pain so I tend to wear comfy clothes. I've never tried contacts. I have a partner and he always says he doesn't care about what I look like which is why I'm asking for help from internet strangers 🙏

Pic 1: Me this morning before work. Minimal makeup. I always wear glasses out of the house though (see slide 4 for my current frames)

Pic 2: Right after a haircut. It's a lot... bouncier than I'd usually have it. But maybe that's good?? I dunno. Heavier makeup. Old glasses.

Pic 3: Hmm I look thinner here... Minimal makeup. Old glasses.

Pic 4: Moderate makeup (no liner). Wearing my current frames.

I'd love a new look!!! [28] Please help me 🙏 Is a bixie cut out of the question? 🫣 Give it to me straight!