Question around pelvic floor and orgasms

Female

I have never really been able to orgasm or at least I thought I couldn’t. I think I have been with clitoral stimulation with a vibrator but that it’s just meh? I have always thought I was nearing but failing to reach an orgasm but I have since realized I am, it’s just really underwhelming 😅 I purchased level weights to try to strengthen my pelvic floor; I figured my pelvic floor was just weak. I have no trouble keeping the heaviest weights in; it seems I have a harder time releasing the muscle. Does this mean I potentially have a hypertonic pelvic floor?

I do not have pain or issues using the restroom. I’ve never really felt pleasure from sex. I get horny and enjoy it for what it is but it doesn’t necessarily feel good. I’m not sure where to go from here. I apologize if this is the wrong sub for this question.

Posted Mar 27, 2026, 8:12 PM UTC

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