Am I super weird or is everyone else to normal or am I asking for too much

Everybody I talk to has so many hobbies like swimming, biking, front end analysis of some super program. Maybe I need more hobbies but it doesn’t stop there.

People I should connect with like anime watchers and video game players are always flat personality when it comes to talking.

Maybe they are just shy and I’m more open. Like do I have introvert hobbies but an open book personality. Do I scare people off. Do I say weird things on accident. Maybe I just have not met my type of people.

There are also people are into inappropriate things and sharing your fanfic is cool and all but let there be something else to you other than the smut you know. Like why can’t the be into deep rock galactic and have a neir b2 fanfic.

Maybe someone will have the answer to my problem here.