28M, can I get divorce if I have evidence?

me and wife ( 28F) are married for 4y with 2y old daughter.

my wife is mentally and physically abusive since early days of marriage

she is still in touch with her ex, sending money and gift even after multiple counselling.

recently she instigated her parents against me and they attached my family. it was 8 vs 3 of us. I set up a spy camera to record the ordeal and it shows goons( in-laws) assualting my mother, myself and my brother. it also recorded my wife hitting my mom.

I've lodged FIR against all of them.

I've few call recording of my in-law giving death threats and few phone recording of my wife humiliating me, my mom and my dead father. in the audio recording she is also heard hitting me and chocking me.

will these be enough to make substantial evidence for divorce

I'm asking because, I've seen many men in limbo even after 5y of filing divorce and wifes not giving them one by skipping from attending court, and court in general have soft corner for them too.

I'm torn between should I apply first or should I wait for her move first?