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As the title says, I am a sadistic Dom looking for a committed relationship and hope to find someone like-minded here. What I am not looking for is anything temporary, be it one-night stands, parties, training, or similar, nothing polygamous, and no long-distance relationships or online activities.

My sexual interests are predominantly sadistic. Pain, edging my partner, pushing her to her limits in a controlled manner, and a certain degree of CnC are examples of what excites me most. I have been active for several years, many of them online, but I also have real-life experience, especially with the kinks mentioned at the beginning. Since these are quite intense kinks, clear communication and trust are important to me, whether it's a environment where you can simply let yourself go, safety is guaranteed, and communication is a given throughout. In contrast, however, I also absolutely love relaxed moments, whether it's cuddling, fooling around in bed (or wherever we happen to be) or similar things. The list of interests is much longer, so here is a helpful list to help you get an idea. Limits I've encountered so far would be scat, vomit, permanent damage, and blood. In everyday life, I want a “normal” relationship on equal terms, in which the power dynamic comes to the front when we live out our sexuality. I'm not into a 24/7 TPE dynamic, and aspects like fixed rules, titles, or similar things are secondary for me, unless they develop organically.

Obviously, I don't think about hurting people day in and day out. Apart from my sexual preferences, I'm quite nerdy and enjoy spending my free time in front of my PC, playing D&D, with a good anime/manga/book, and much more. I also spend a considerable amount of my daily life in the kitchen and am generally excited about food in any form. To balance out all my indoor interests, I enjoy being outdoors when the weather permits (read: when it's not too cold and wet). When it comes to looks, I’m about 1,73 m tall with an average build, have long black hair, a short beard, glasses and some tattoos.

Who am I hoping will be interested? Of course, a masochistic sub who is also looking for a committed relationship, and especially someone who is playful, likes to tease, and has a slightly bratty side (I am by no means a brat tamer, but I would never say no if you gave me a reason for a “punishment”) I don't expect you to have had all kinds of experiences, a healthy dose of curiosity and enthusiasm is more important to me in comparison. Shared interests outside of BDSM would be perfect, of course, but since I'm almost too curious and open to new things, I would love to hear about your biggest hobbies. Physical attraction definitely plays a role in a relationship, I myself am attracted to women with small curves/are petite, but that's just a preference. In terms of age, I would prefer you to be between your mid/late 20s and my age, and as I mentioned, I'm not interested in a long-distance relationship, so I hope you're from the Rhein-Main area in Germany.

Alright, that's enough written, and I've probably forgotten a few things still. If you're still interested, write me a little bit about yourself!