33 F4M est the one that got away vibes

I'm married. And I can only do this on snap.

Gaaah so close… thought I got swept away. But here we are again … looking for someone who’s not here for sex. Plain and simple. Im cute and have a spicy side but I’m so sick of getting that exciting feeling and then a spicy convo is had about interests, or I send a nsfw photo and boom. It’s all about sex. All of a sudden a guy doesn’t know how to act???? 😮‍💨

Im recovering from things, so I just need a mature man who can see the pay off of putting in effort to establish a connection and letting the spice happen organically.

I want to go all in again.

Meaning, to find my person. Which, as we all know, is easier said then done. A difficult balance of someone emotionally capable, yet playful and fun. I neeeeed an emotional connection. Like need it (thanks trauma). But I loveee to laugh. So really a fwb embodied. Hell, a pocket bf.

I have a type and it's red flags. lol grrr. So I really really just need a green flag. If you're here because you wanna get off, awesome, love that for you. Don't message me.

I love spice as much as the next person but I'm recovering. I need someone gentle, until the moment says otherwise. I need to feel like more than some internet girl.

I want to go deep into this. I want you to think of me years from now and maybe even be tempted with the thought "I should message her"... let me be there for you in ways.

Nobody has.

I wanna laugh, probably cry (I'm a crier, happy or sad), and I want to connect. On all levels.

Few things to note. I will probably bully you. It's a love language • I will more than likely dive into things you love and love hearing you talk about them. Don’t think I click well with men over 42, sorry. And please be same time zone.

I'm short, light skin, light hair, light eyes. Mom bod.

Handsome lover boy, where are you??