Sex toys..

I’m looking to maybe buy a toy, but there’s so many options and it’s kinda overwhelming .. I’m about to start T, so ik my libido is gonna increase(and it’s already kinda high..) and I’m considering getting a sex toy, but I have no idea what to get..

I don’t know if I should get some kind of vibrator, because I’ll get bottom growth and I heard it can be really sensitive, but I’m not sure if I should get something insertable either.. and if I do, should I get something that vibrates or not? I’d prefer if it was on the smaller end, because I’m not anywhere near able to take some of the huge toys I’ve seen..

I also need to be sure that wherever I buy it from is super discreet because I live with my parents and if they found out I bought a sex toy id die of embarrassment..

Does anyone have any suggestions for toys?