New fear unlocked 🙂

In the modern world.. The way things are going. I am going afraid of arrange marriage. And yes I am a boy.

Because pakistan main girls ka pata ni hota.. Wether they like you or not.. Wo shaadi kar leti.. And phir shaadi ky baad sahi zaleel hota insaan.

I am a caring person, genuinely.. Like from clothes to makeup to jewelry to ideas to yapping.. Meri family main jo bhi auratin hai unki baat sunta hun. Joint family ky masly.. Like i know ky kaise kaise khayal rakhna hai aur InshaAllah main rakhun ga bhi.

But I fear ky meri shaadi aisi larki sy hojy joky us type ki ho ky main usko love show karon like gifts (bangles, jewelry, care ya kuch aur bhi) and she goes away. When I try to get intimate she says no, makes excuses, does no effort in love part of the marriage. 🙂. Phir agr bnda gently convince karny ki koshish kary to pata chala agli ne case kar diya domestic violence ya marital r*pe ka. Khud hi cuts mar ky ya shor dal ky pata chala.. Mere py case hogya.

I know everything about consent and I highly appreciate it but yahan main typical larkio ki baat kar rha ky unko consent ki fikr nhi krri..... They never get intimate or put any efforts in general wholesome romance even. Wo shaadi sy pehle hi zehn bana ky ati hoti ky ye shaadi main krrhi hun laikin maine is bandy ky sath kuch karna nhi hai.. I am gonna put zero effort. Ye to arrange marriage hai.. I'll zaleel him

Because pakistan main aise hi hota mostly... Women make marriages dry. And I am a loving type of person (gifts hon, late night gossips hon, rooftop tea sessions hon, and care and love ho)

Ab main toxic bhi nhi hun.. That girls start loving me naturally.. Because toxic ko naturally respect mil jaati

I am a nice person and a good man to cheezain aur difficult hojati

And recently jo trends chal rhy I am seriously afraid 🙂.

Humari family main incident bhi huay.. Aik itna acha larka tha... Shaadi ki saaari shopping hui.. Preparation hui.. Aur phir shaadi ky baad.. Baarat waly din larki ny shor macha diya maine to yaha shaadi hi nhi krni thi..🙂

Wo itna axha larka.. Like a gentleman depression main chala gya.. Shaadi ky 50 lacs zaya. 2 khandanon main larai hogyi 🙂.