i think i'm (24F) a unwelcomed guest in my bf (25M) flat. How do handle the next 5 days?
I’m currently visiting my boyfriend at his place in a different country, and honestly, I’m at my breaking point. Every time I come here, the apartment is a total disaster and I always end up being the one to clean it. This time, I decided I’d had enough I told myself I’m only cleaning up after myself.
Even though he saw I have a big list for my university work and projects, he kept asking me to do things for him while I was clearly busy. I don't mind helping at all but not when he’s perfectly capable and I’m the one struggling to get my work done.
When I finally called him out, he said that I complain too much now and that I wasn’t like this before.
Things got really tense. He started cleaning the kitchen in a huff, i cleaned with him to show him we should be working as a team. He went to bed angry and left me to sleep on the sofa. He didn't even check on me or try to talk it out.
This morning he left for work without even looking at me. I’m stuck here for five more days until my flight, and I feel trapped. I’m tired of my boundaries being treated like an attack.
Posted Mar 30, 2026, 6:20 AM UTC