My abuser is now claiming that I assaulted HIM.

Okay so for context, I was in an abusive relationship for a while last year. It ended and later on, I reported him for multiple sexual assaults.

Well, he turned this back on me. He’s made false allegations against me to my boyfriend, saying that I’m actually being CHARGED with sexual assault and that I’ve been harassing him. Please note I was never even questioned or talked to about this claim, and it was entirely false and a tactic to silence me. Regardless, it started to work a little bit. This kept me up for weeks and I was genuinely terrified that he made some dumb shit up or that there was even a chance I accidentally made HIM uncomfortable in any way. It got to the point I considered taking my own life (I did not, as you can tell) and scared my boyfriend so bad he broke down crying in school.

The situation was really bad, but he took it a step farther. He’s now claiming that I SA’d him, because I was drunk. I audibly laughed when someone told me about this, because in what world does someone being drunk mean that any sex is assault against the sober person? It’s the polar opposite, and he’s literally admitted that I was intoxicated to numerous people. Is he saying I was too drunk to remember that I assaulted him? Because from what it sounds like, he’s saying that a sober person cannot consent to sex with a drunk person..even though it’s vise versa. I’m truly questioning my memory here, even to this day.

He keeps watching me in class and getting near me, and has gone so far as to take the route specifically behind my desk and touch me with his chest there. It’s uncomfortable and frustrating. I’m scared that maybe I did something to him I forgot about, even though I know deep down this is just a cover up to scare me (and it’s working).

I am SO tired of this and it’s infuriating and stressing me out so bad. Any advice?