Never in my life

okay so I know everyone talks about how their relatives talk shit but never before has it affected me mentally

I'm now in 12th writing neet and this one FUCKASS aunt keeps literally praying for my downfall her daughter got into an ivy league so she keeps rubbing it in everyone's face. I'm genuinely not a jealous person so I'm so happy for my cousin, why can't they leave it at that. Now this aunt is calling everyone and gloating and she keeps calling my parents.

My parents are now indirectly comparing me to her.

Bhai already neet ke liye I'm so tensed now on top of that this shit never before in my life have I faced anything like this.

That aunt lives abroad and literally checks the news to see when my papers gets over and texts me and stuff. ITS ON THE FREAKING NEWS THAT THE PAPER WAS HARD ITS THE WAY SHE ACTS BRO.

Can someone give tips on how not to be affected i genuinely cannot deal with this shit.